Private AI matchmaker + members-only social club
Private matchmaking.
A real social life.
Dani is your private AI matchmaker. Velvet Ties brings the introductions to life through monthly meetups in NYC.
Apply on the web, or start directly in the app on your iPhone. Digital app access is free during the beta. Approval and verification requirements still apply. Physical events may be ticketed separately.
50+ real eventsWinter meetups in MiamiMembers-only community
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How Dani works
Fewer, better introductions.
Then a real plan.
Dani helps turn your answers into a profile. The matching engine compares preferences and compatibility signals. Daniella, our human founder and matchmaker, adds curation. The chemistry is yours to discover.
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Chat privately with your AI matchmaker
Dani helps capture your preferences and draft a bio in your voice, with photo feedback to help you choose how you show up.
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Choose how you want to date
Committed introductions lead with compatibility and relationship goals. Casual makes room for attraction, boundaries, and more spontaneous connections. Choose either, or both; you decide who interests you.
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Take it offline with IRL Mode
Explore which events to attend and who to meet. Date planning starts with mutual interest and the availability you both share—an introduction is a starting point, not a guaranteed date.
Committed · compatibility first
Alex
Looking for a lasting partnership
- The context
- Relationship goals, preferences, and the life you want to build.
- Your choice
- Read the profile. Like or pass. Chat opens when interest is mutual.
Casual · attraction, with context
Jordan
Open to a more spontaneous connection
- The context
- What you are open to, your boundaries, and practical preferences.
- Your choice
- Attraction is personal. Like or pass; chat opens when interest is mutual.
Choose a mode to compare both examples.
50+ events before the private beta
The app began around a real table.
Velvet Ties grew by watching how people connect in the room, what makes an introduction land, and when the right nudge changes a night.
“I built the app to make the right introduction possible beyond one table — without losing the human judgment that made it work.”
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Hamptons Weekend
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New Year’s Eve: Russian Eras
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Available on iPhone · NYC
Meet someone worth leaving the app for.
Apply on the web, or start directly in the app through TestFlight. Share what you are looking for; we will help you take the next step.
Choose your joining path · meet online or in real life
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